What Men Want to See on Valentine’s Eve

February 02, 2011

 

sheer black braValentine’s Day is coming, and our emails are sounding the charge.  Scores of men are shopping online in the lingerie category, looking for something to present to the women in their lives. Guess what they’re looking for.

Let’s start with color.  By a landslide, the inquiries are for black.  There is something about black lingerie that just does something to men.  By the way, this is good news for us as the recipients. It is much easier to turn around and wear that black item over and over again.  How many of us have red bras we rarely wear?

Next on their list is sheer.  Boy, do men love sheer.  It must be in their DNA because even our cross-dresser customers want sheer lingerie.  Sheer can come in many different styles from bras to nightgowns to panties. And, of course, anything sheer in black is at the top of the list.

sheer black pantiesMen also like outfits.  We are fielding scores of questions about garters and the stockings that go with them.  So, building on a theme here–a sheer black lingerie ensemble is a home run for men.

And finally, we are seeing a lot of questions about shelf or chopper bras.  Interestingly enough the inquiries are coming more from women than men, but there are still a lot of men wondering about how to size them.  Personally, I wouldn’t advise a man to purchase this item unless he is very familiar with his partner.  Sagging is an unattractive symptom for many women in these bras.

So, be a tease this Valentine’s Day and have some fun wearing lingerie you’ve never dared to wear before.

 

Find Valentine’s Day lingerie at HerRoom in these departments:
Sexy Lingerie

 

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Oprah Responsible For Plus-Size Lingerie? I Think Not!

January 27, 2011

 

oprahThere have been a couple of articles written this week proclaiming Oprah as the reason that sexy and fashionable plus-sized lingerie is available in the market today.  This is simply nonsense. 

Every plus-size lingerie brand we carry at HerRoom has been around for years prior to Oprah’s ‘Bra Intervention’  programs.  But I will give her credit for bringing an awareness to women that they are probably in the wrong size bra.  However, her deal with Nordstrom stores to promote/push women to get fitted there and proclaiming them as the mecca for lingerie shopping did no one but Nordstrom any favors.

Between her recent big ‘secret,’  these articles of self-promotion and numerous personal interviews as of late, I think we can all figure out that she is simply manipulating the media with her star power in an effort to promote her new network OWN.  But hey, if I had her power, I’d probably be doing the same thing.

 

 

Find great plus-size lingerie at HerRoom in these departments:
Plus-Size Lingerie

 

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A Frank Conversation About Shapewear

January 13, 2011

 

cass shapewearI sell a lot of shapewear from many shapewear manufacturers at HerRoom. So, I’ve heard all the pitches as to why each brand thinks they do it the best.  And, with some brands, I agree that their approach is unique.  But, (and this is a big but) shapewear is not the panacea that many women think it is.  It absolutely has limitations.

For starters, women need to understand that it can only reduce your measurement 1 to 2 inches at the most.  This makes sense if you think about it.  You know what a tourniquet is – a tightly compressed bandage you put on your body to stop the flow of blood.  If your shapewear was too tight, your blood system could not function.  This is one of the reasons why I get mad at my daughters when they put their elastic hairbands on their wrists; they are cutting off the flow of blood to their hands.  This is also the reason why doctors don’t want you to wear tight knee-high nylons; this stops the flow of blood to small blood vessels in your legs.

So, now you get why shapewear has its limitations in terms of how much compression it can provide.  But, here is another important point.  You can not reduce body mass.  A pound of flesh is a pound of flesh no matter how much you compress it.  Think of it as a water balloon.  You can’t make it smaller, you can only reshape it. So, let’s say you buy a biker short piece of shapewear.  Yes, it will compress your tummy (assuming it comes up high enough) and your thighs, but at each end of this piece you will see a bulge – muffin top, and lines on your thighs.  Your body mass has to go somewhere.  It does not go away.  One fact is true, the more you cover your body with shapewear, the smoother your body will appear and it can reduce the largest measuring points of your body.

body wrapA discussion of shapewear must also include a quick comment on fit.  First, never buy a smaller size thinking it will give you more support.  All you are doing is buying a garment that is too small for you.  Buy your correct size.  If your shapewear garment constantly rolls up on your legs, or rolls down from your tummy, your shapewear is too small; you need a larger size.

Having said all of this, I am still a believer in shapewear, and I wear it on occasion.  It’s not because I am delusional, it’s because I am wearing something form-fitting and I want to look smooth.  The other reason I wear shapwear is when I have a tummy and the garment I’m wearing will show this.  A piece of shapewear helps to smooth my tummy.  Also, because it is there pushing in on me, it reminds me to keep my tummy muscles tight.  So, for me, it’s also a kind of silent posture reminder.

Shapwear comes in many control levels from light to very firm.  The lighter levels are mainly selected by women to provide a smooth shape all day.  A light to medium control camisole, for example, helps reduce bulging along the bra lines on your back.  The firm to very firm should really be worn for no more than 4 to 6 hours – it’s event shapewear.  Wearing this all day is a real challenge and a mental distraction because no one is truly comfortable wearing this level of support for long periods of time, and don’t even get me started about the challenges when going to the bathroom.

So, what shapewear brand do I recommend? Well, clearly every brand on my site.  But, each has its own reasons.  Let me enlighten you to a few.  Alphabetically, let me briefly talk about BodyWrap, Cass, Rago, TC Fine and Va Bien.

BodyWrap is the original shapewear that actually knits in different levels of firmness throughout the shapewear piece.  Made by a Canadian swimwear manufacaturer, it is a great product for women who want to keep their curves.  It factors in having less compression in the bust, and bottom area so that these shapes can be shown off.

Cass Luxury Shapewear was the first to create garments that you can wear as outerwear but with compression built into them.  So, instead of wearing shapewear AND a camisole, just buy one of their beautiful pieces and you don’t have to cover it up. The pieces look great on, and you look smooth.

Rago is one of the oldest and most traditional shapewear brands out there.  The size range is vast going up to 9xl.  Thier products are impressive pieces of construction with boning, non-stretch tape, and extremely firm fabrics being used to create their silhouettes.  Spend the time to get into one of their garments, and you will know that you are contained with nothing hanging out.

TC Fine Shapewear specializes in firm control garments and does very impressive and very extensive wear testing before putting something on the market.  They have an army of women who wear-test their garments and wash them repeatedly, then provide feedback.  They boast that their products have extraordinary comfort given their firm control, use thin fabrics, give a tailored appearance, use invisible seams and do not ride up or roll down.

Finally, Va Bien is a terrific brand of shapewear owned and designed by the Gimble Family who are French.  They specialize in shapewear that is also beautiful.   You would never be embarassed being caught in your Va Bien shapewear. Thus it is a favorite for brides and their mothers and for other special occasions.  But, you can also wear it for every day and feel like you are wearing something very beautiful.

With the New Year upon us, think about creating a new you, whether it be with exercise or shapewear or both.

 

 

Find all of these shapewear brands and more at HerRoom in these departments:
Shapewear

 

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